Server Nightmares - Bad Tipping and Rude Customer Stories - Part 10

Black Out Nightmare

On October 26, 2010, in Restaurant Stories, by admin

I work at a sushi restaurant that is family owned and relatively small. Our entire restaurant consists of 10 tables and a tiny sushi bar.

Our restaurant is usually pretty packed for lunch and does decently well on weekday dinners while we have a line out the door on thursdays, fridays, and saturdays, It’s a 5-6 hour shift of running around with plates. To make matters worse, since we are so small, the owner believes that it’s not necessary to have a hostess or a person to man the phones for carry out. Somehow we servers always manage, but at the end of a friday or saturday we are always burned out.

A friend of mine asked me to cover her Sunday shift. Sunday’s are half days so its only from 4 to 9 and due to the small window of hours that we’re open, its not usually busy at all. I was told i would be working with a relatively new server, but I wasn’t concerned because if we were lucky, we would get more than 2 tables each. Also, the main chef was out sick so the owner, who does cook but is mainly just a ”over-seer”, figures it would be ok for him to manage the kitchen

This particular sunday was extremely rainiy and the winds were blowing very hard. Just as it happens to be on these types of days, carry out was ringing off the hook. after about 5 or 6 orders, i could feel that we were going to be backed up and began to give carry out customers more than a half hour to come in and pick up their food. after taking about 15 orders or so…….

THE LIGHTS GO OFF. Our card machine, telephone, all the kitchen lights except for 2 very small overhead lights, all of fridges are down.

Amazingly our gas burners and the grill and fryers were still working.

And then came in the flood of customers. Apparantly some of them had their power go out and that was the reason why they had ordered carry out. Most of the customers were very understanding because they were going through the same things. I felt very bad because obviously it was taking much longer than i had promised them on the phone, due to the fact that we had an inexperienced chef who was working with a tiny overhead light, and an inexperienced server who was running around red-faced with only 1 table while I managed over 15 carry-out orders.

There was however one lady who just could not understand. She had ordered a vegetable tempura appetizer, which comes with peices of mushroom, squash, broccoli, onion, and sweet potato. However she wanted it specially ordered to have only peices of broccoli and nothing else.

At a time when everything is hectic, specialtie orders are always a pet peeve, but as servers, we just have to bite down and do it.

This is when she started yelling about how she couldn’t believe a business would operate this way and how she should call the better business bureau about the lack of customer service.

I calmly asked her (all the while about to explode in my head) to wait just a little longer and that I was really sorry for the inconvenience and that the blackout has made it nearly impossible for the chef to cook because there was no light.

The lady sat down but then i guess she thought of something else to gripe about because a minute later she came back and asked if the order was finished yet, Again i told her it wasn’t and that I was really sorry about the delay. To which she replied, well if I had known it would take this long i would have gone somewhere else. I replied by asking her if she wanted to cancel her order but she said that she was already here and might as while wait, all the while rolling her eyes and putting her hands up in frustration.

After another 30 seconds she comes back to me, and in the loudest voice imaginable, starts yelling about how this is the worst service she had ever seen and that she should be able to call the police. I was literally at the end of my patience, but once again i said, Im sorry, its due to the blackout. TO MY UTTER DISBELIEF, the lady then says, well you s houldn’t be taking carry out orders if your power isn’t on………

And i lost my cool. I told her that when she called the phone was obviously still working, and the blackout had not occured yet. I also reprimanded her saying that a lady of her age should realize that when a girl at least 30 years younger than her can keep calm while being yelled at that she should also have learned to be a bit more patient. I told her i had apologized to her more than 3 times and that i thought it was about time for her to sit down and stay there until her broccoli was finished.

I admit it was probably not the best thing to do, but this lady was by far the worst i had ever seen. She did stay sitting down with her face turning bright purple and red for being told off but i made sure to put her broccoli to the front of the line just so i could get her out of the restaurant and not have to see her face anymore.

It was not a nice sunday.

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Dumb Customer Moment

On October 11, 2010, in Dumb Customer Moment, by admin

Yesterday, I had husband and wife table, and the wife’s order left me speechless for a few seconds…

She ordered a chicken dish, and proceeded to ask for her chicken done medium.

After I explained to her that all of our chicken is done well, she responded, “OK then, medium well will be fine then.”

Not sure if she was trying to get sick from the food, or if she just had a true dumb customer moment.

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Pizza Party Nightmare

On October 4, 2010, in Rude Customer, Stories, by admin

I work at a casual but nice Italian restaurant/pizza parlor that is geared toward family style dining and authentic Chicago style deep dish. Our prices are moderate, averaging about $15 or so per person.

Another server and myself had the bar as our section, half of which was reserved for a party we were to serve and the other half we were rotating. the party was to arrive at 7pm and was for 30 people, who did not pre-order any of the food. i knew this wasn’t going to be the easiest because usually when a party of that size doesn’t pre-order, it just makes it that much harder to figure out what everybody wants. well the half of the bar they hadn’t reserved was in full swing when finally around 7:30 the people in the party start to show up. it was ten people at first, appeared to be the one’s in charge, and seemed really nice. after that all hell broke loose.

the rest of the party started showing up and it turned out they ”had a few more than expected, is that ok?” a few more was actually 20 more people than they had told us. so now we had to figure out where we were going to put all these people, and THEY had the gall to be upset with US. for what? not being clairvoyant? like we should know that when they said 30 people, what they really meant was 50?! so we told them as soon as the tables in the bar started clearing out we’d be able to seat the rest of them. i was at one of those tables boxing up their meals and asking if they’d like anything else when one of the guys from the party came up, interrupted me, and asked ”are they leaving? like now? are they leaving now? cause we need this table when they do.” BEYOND RUDE. i looked at my table apologetically. so eventually we get everybody situated and start to explain our pizza deal that we have. it’s where a large group of people can order two types of big appetizers, two types of big salads, and an assortment of pizzas (the amount of food in each course correlates with how many people there are) for about $16 a person not including drinks, which sounds like a lot but is actually a deal in the long run; it would be more expensive if every three people ordered their own appetizers, salads, and pizza. not to mention the fact that if they took the pizza party deal, it would be way easier on us. so they all agreed to this pizza deal, even when we explained that we would not be able to split the check based on how large the party is and just the way the pizza party deal goes into the computer-it can’t be split.

so we get all the appetizers and salads out and everything is pretty messy because the people are all over the place (like walking around all over in the bar) and really needy and demanding. so we get them fed, and the time comes for the dessert option. for some reason, still unknown to me, we ended up giving them free dessert even though they had brought their own cake. why? because they complained about not having a dessert deal in the pizza party deal. yeah. so that’s about $80 off their bill. this was after we didn’t charge them for the kids in the party considering the pizza party deal was more than enough food and kids don’t usually eat that much (on a daily basis we really only count the kids as 1/2’s ).so we were already giving them a good deal.

finally the time comes where they’re ready to settle their bill and we hand it over. after all the drinks and a few random side dishes they had ordered, it was almost $800. then the complaining starts again. i’m not entirely sure what all they complained about because they were talking to my manager for quite some time and i was trying to shut the restaurant down (at this point it was past closing time, which was at 10pm) i know that a couple of the things they complained about was that they said my serving partner had told them all different deals with different prices (not remotely true) and the fact that about 10 of their family members had left before the bill came, so they were angry that they were stuck with their portion of the bill. they acted as if it was all our fault. HOW?! i mean, that’s between them and their family members, not us. it’s not our fault their family members are sheisty and left without chipping in for the bill. yet they complained and complained until finally my manager took another $100 off their bill. way to stand your ground, manager. so in the end they paid less than $700 for a bill that should have been closer to $1,000. so my serving partner and i only got about 50% of what we should have made off the party.we each made $50. for all that work, and running around, and chaos. it should have been closer to $100 each. unbelievable that people would act that way.

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12 Dollar Water

On September 30, 2010, in Pictures, by admin

At least even a bad tip on this check would be like hitting the lottery.



Story behind the check…

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On September 29, 2010, in Uncategorized, by admin

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